Questions to Ask Before Walking Down the Aisle
by Joynup Team on January 28, 2022
Getting married takes a lot of time and effort. It’s a huge decision you might only make once in your life. It's understandable for there to be some anxiety associated with it. To help ease that anxiety, we put together some questions to think about and discuss with your significant other before walking down the aisle.
How to ask? That’s the tricky part. Some of these questions are serious, and most people don't want to end up in an argument on the eve of their wedding. You may hear something you don't agree with. But there are important issues to discuss in detail and decide whether or not marriage is a good idea.
Here are a few of the questions we think you should be asking your partner:
1. Are our backgrounds, values and goals right for one another?
2. Why do we want to get married?
3. Do we share similar attitudes about money?
4. Do we want children together?
5. What kind of environment do we want our children to grow up in?
6. How do we want our extended families to be involved in our lives?
7. How will we compromise and resolve disagreements?
8. Do we think marriage should be a 50/50 partnership?
9. How will we solve problems together?
10. What are we most afraid of when it comes to marriage?
At Joynup, we believe the more discussion the better, which is why our quizzes help couples plan their future together. Joynup helps you communicate. You can answer quizzes to get on the same page, and create agreements with one another that will help keep the relationship positive because you know what you each expect from the other. The agreements can be changed at any time. And, while we don't ever want to see breakups happen, Joynup helps you breakup in a civil way, knowing your agreements are in place to support you.
While being in a relationship is all about love and romance, it's also about being smart and informed. Joynup can help with that!
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